On Saturday, June 15, 2019, my oldest nephew got married. In Hope BC no less. Now for those of you reading this and don’t know where Hope BC is, it is on the mainland and it is usually NOT a destination stop, more of a passing through to somewhere else kinda place. Kevin and I walked the downtown (main street) several times over (it is a very small town) It is a town that actually has quite a history as Kevin and I learned as we walked around. I had been there a couple of times before but usually only passing through. Once when starting on a camping trip pulling a trailer and a computer check engine light came on. Hope was the closest place to stop to see if we could get it repaired. They didn’t have a Jeep dealer in town (they don’t have much) but they did have a mechanic who was willing to call Jeep and have them walk him through the repair. He dropped everything else to help us too. I must say small towns are usually great for those types of things.
On Saturday morning they had a craft fair in the park which consisted of 10 vendors. It took us 20 minutes to walk through it, and then only because we stopped to talk to the vendors. It was a good way to spend a beautiful sunny warm morning though.
The wedding was held at American Creek Lodge which was a little ways out of the town and up a logging road. A shuttle bus was arranged to pick guests up from several motel locations around the town and ferry us all up and back from the venue. I am so glad to, wouldn’t have even wanted to attempt that road at night!
The day was beautiful, not too hot with a nice breeze and what a backdrop. The scenery was truly stunning. The ceremony was held outdoors with the bride and groom standing on a platform, (see yellow arrow) with the stunning view out if front of them. Unfortunately, I don’t have any pics of that. Have to see if I can get some.
An Aside Note
I have an aside note story that some of you reading this would understand right away and some of you maybe never will and that’s ok. My Dad passed away over 9 years ago now. He was really into trains! I mean totally into them, so much so that he had a model railroad in the basement. On road trips, if he saw a train going by (on smaller two-lane highways, not on freeways) he would stop the car, grab the camera and take tons of pictures of the train as it was going by. I had noticed trains snaking their way through the canyon below as we were waiting for the ceremony to start but they went by silently.
So, everyone is assembled, the bride and groom are at the alter and the person officiating was just about to start when a train whistle blew, and it blew again and again. No train whistle blew before the ceremony and none after. The timing was too perfect for it to have been a coincidence. I knew Dad was there and watching. Maybe you don’t believe in such things, and that is ok you don’t have to. My Mom and I both knew and that is all that matters.
It’s true, families tend to only gather for weddings and funerals. It’s a shame really. I guess we all live such busy lives these days that these are the only times we make time for family especially the further apart we live. It was great to see some family members again, some that I haven’t seen in over a year, and it was also bittersweet regarding the family members that couldn’t make it such as my aunt and uncle who are getting older and facing some pretty difficult life challenges.
Family doesn’t just consist of blood though. My sister Joyce and I grew up with a long-time friend Lora in our old neighbourhood. We consider her a part of the family and it was so good to spend time with her as well as with the cousins.
When I was young my Mom smocked dresses and blouses for my sister and myself. I took up the hobby in the ’80s but lost interest however I had kept a lot of the supplies. Mom decided she wanted to smock dresses for her great-grandchildren so both my two great-nieces got dresses as well as Kate’s (the bride) little niece who was in the wedding party. These types of dresses look adorable and never really seem to go out of style. Mom did a fantastic job and the dresses all fit beautifully.
A Perfect Weekend
The next morning a lot of us met up for breakfast before departing, going on our separate ways. It was a beautiful weekend. The venue, mountain scenery, great weather and fantastic company all made for a perfect weekend wedding getaway.
Remember, to keep in touch with family and friends, make sure you see them more than just weddings and funerals.
Next up I will be documentation my Japan trip, so stay tuned.
Hi, today will be a quick post only because I haven’t done one for a while. I have been working on a Judy Niemeyer quilt, one which I have been working on forever, or at least it feels like it and I will show that to you along with how I do curved piecing in the next post. I have been working on this pattern for so long I don’t even think she sells it anymore.
It’s hard sometimes to write a blog, I really enjoy writing, however, I find that since I work from home there can literally be days where I don’t even really leave the house so nothing much happens that would be the least bit interesting to either write or read about.
A Good Reminder
Now, this post is not quilt related at all, however, it was a really good reminder of life’s golden rule. Recently, I was helping someone out, I was getting paid for it, but I didn’t need the money and/or the work. It felt good getting out of the house though and interacting with people and I enjoyed the work for the most part. It was really only one shift a week so didn’t interfere much with my businesses.
Well, it turned out this was a great reminder and lesson of why I now work for myself. What is it with people who have businesses that employ other people, that they feel they have to treat their staff as ignorant and less than? Yes, they may have been running a successful business for a while (or not) and they certainly have experience in their field however just because someone takes a low paying job doesn’t mean that they are ignorant or do not deserve respect.
Treating people with dignity and respect is always a good idea. The other thing I have discovered, in both working for larger and small businesses it is always a good idea to have things written down in an operations manual. This makes it easy for new staff to read so that they know exactly how the employer wants things done and is also a good reminder to older staff for the odd thing that only comes up once and awhile. This is helpful for both parties as if it is left for word of mouth the employer may think they have told a staff member something when in fact they actually haven’t.
Treat People With Respect
I have worked in many different capacities now and I have had some really excellent bosses and some really, really bad ones and everything in between. The good ones treat you as a team member, someone who is important to the running of the business, they ask for your input and respect your opinions. The bad ones disregard your knowledge or experience, throw you under a bus and just generally try to make you feel small. Of course, they do this because they don’t feel good about themselves. Kinda sad really!
This wasn’t really the case here it was more of miscommunication and the store owner not handling things in a professional manner. I am not going to go into details, however, I have come to a stage in my life where if I am not treated with dignity and respect then I am simply not going to work for you. Plain and simple really. I am giving by nature and really love to help. In the past, I have found, that because I didn’t want to make trouble I have actually let people walk all over me. In this past year, I have learned to stand up for myself, say what needs to be said, always with dignity and respect (two wrongs don’t make a right) and move on when treated badly.
Onwards and upwards and maybe I will think twice now before offering to help. That sounds awful though doesn’t it? I shouldn’t have to think like that. At least I don’t let myself be walked on anymore.
Celebrate the life lessons!! Now back to quilting way more enjoyable!
So what is up with me! A lot has changed in the last month and mostly for the better! This post will not be quilting related as such, more just a quick catch up on what has been happening in my life and my studio.
As I mentioned in a post a few weeks back I had taken a full-time job back in December. I won’t mention the name of the company I was working for, however, some people reading this post will know which company I am talking about.
I put in my notice for April 13 as I had intended however I ended up leaving a week before then as the work environment became intolerable. The company brought on a new account and they had known this was going to happen for months before the April 1 date. Did the company prepare for this happening and have trained staff available for the transition? Nope, not at all! In fact the 1 person they did hire (a week before) quit after only 10 days on the job. That’s how bad the situation became. It was almost laughable if it wasn’t so sad.
This was so poorly planned that the only thing management could say was, we’ll get through it! Really!! Yup, you will, without me! If the remaining staff were smart they would have walked as well. I don’t know as I don’t have any contact with anyone there.
So, Kevin and I took a well-earned break and went to the Dominican Republic for 12 days. It was part holiday and part of a seminar regarding a business venture that we are starting together. We have been back for just over a week now and life is starting to get back to normal.
I have several quilts waiting to be quilted both mine and client quilts and also learning all I can re our marketing business we have started. I am so glad to be working for myself again although that said I may have the opportunity to work part-time over the summer months. That is still up in the air. Either way, I love having the freedom to choose when and for how long I work during the day! I certainly don’t miss sitting in my car in traffic for 45 minutes trying to get home at night!
Well, it seems like forever ago that I have updated this blog and to some extent that is true it has been several months now. A lot has happened in that time frame.
So where have I been! Well, life got complicated and due to some circumstances, I decided to go back to work full time. I still had my quilting business on the side and was doing it evenings and weekends, however that left little time for doing things like updating this blog or posting pictures on social media, watching movies, or even going out much. Life got very busy and even more complicated really fast.
The circumstances that led me to go back to work full time have not really changed however, I have. Well, ok that is not entirely true, my quilting business is actually getting busier, not enough to be able to sustain as a full-time job but busy enough that just working at this evenings and weekends aren’t enough.
The other thing I have noticed is that my health was declining working full time. I also noticed that I was becoming very unhappy and negative. In light of the above, I have made the decision that life is too short and I want to enjoy it while I still can. I have therefore decided to go back to just quilting, something that I love to do and give up the day job.
Since I didn’t do much but work, work, work for the last few months I don’t have a lot to say here except that although this was a difficult decision I know I am making the right one.
This means I will have more to write about in future although I still have a couple of weeks of work left and then Kevin and I are going on a much needed holiday.
So watch this space for updates in the next few weeks. I am looking forward to getting back to posting about life, quilting and anything else that comes up.
The first day of Autumn. I love Summer and this one was particularly good however the weather has changed now, it’s still sunny but much cooler.
The last few weeks have been busy with some local travel going on. Kevin’s daughter had her housewarming party in Nanaimo a few weekends back so Kevin and I headed up there for the day. We got there early so enjoyed fish and chips on the wharf in downtown Nanaimo as well as some window shopping before heading to the party.
It was a beautiful sunny day especially considering it was Labour Day weekend. Picture perfect actually.
The next weekend my Mom and I took the ferry to the Mainland to visit my sister and her family. It rained the Saturday but the weather turned warmer on Sunday. Didn’t matter much though Mom and I spent most of Sunday at Ikea in Coquitlam doing some damage to my credit card. You should have seen us trying to fit everything in the back of the SUV and we still had to pick up my friend Karen from New York at the airport on the Monday. Ha we got it all in but it was a tight squeeze.
My wonderful nephew holding my sweet great niece Georgia. She is just too cute for words and loves to cuddle.
So on the Monday Mom and I picked up my friend Karen from New York and we headed for the ferry. We lucked right out and were able to see a pod of whales along side the ferry half way through the trip. Ha saved the money for having to take a whale watching trip.
I had made Karen a quilt (of course, that’s what I do) so here I am presenting it to her. The picture isn’t great. Kevin is awesome at editing videos, painting and music but picture taking isn’t one of his strengths yet.
It was fantastic seeing Karen again and getting to show her around the beautiful place where I live. I had a great time and it gave me the opportunity to see some places on the Island that I haven’t visited in quite some time.
We lucked out too as the weather held right up until her last two days here. We spent an afternoon touring Fort Rodd Hill which I hadn’t done in years. Above is a snapshoot of Fisgard Lighthouse.
Last Friday we went up the Island and stopped at Whippletree Junction for some shopping. I found a great old Elna sewing machine (which I haven’t taken a picture of yet) and two lamps. We had lunch at a great restaurant right on the water in Qualicum Beach and then stopped at Little Qualicum Falls. From there I took her to Cathedral Grove to see an ancient Douglas Fir ecosystem. It was so still and quiet in the Grove except of course for the cars on the highway. Oh well.
Karen flew back home on Tuesday and I miss her already. I had a great time playing tour guide and falling in love with Vancouver Island all over again.
With Autumn comes the cooler weather and of course quilts. People are starting to get back to sewing again and thinking it’s only a few months now until Christmas, so back to work to help my clients finish their projects.
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What a beautiful summer we have been having here in Victoria BC. It has been a busy one too.
Have you ever thought about the term Time vs Money. I have been thinking a lot about this lately. We had a woman come into the store where I work the other day and she wanted a new sewing machine which would use a ruler foot (a foot that allows one to use long arm rulers on a domestic sewing machine). She had a sewing machine but it would not take a ruler foot and someone told her that machine quilting with rulers on a domestic sewing machine would solve all of her problems.
Here was the difficult part though. She didn’t want to spend the money to get a decent machine to make free motion quilting easy. She wanted the cheapest machine she could get. Unfortunately the more inexpensive machines, while being able to get a foot to fit, didn’t have the throat space she would need to enable the ruler to fit. The other factor is the more inexpensive machines may not have the best stitch quality for free motion quilting either.
When I started asking questions like how much experience she had with free motion and since she was just doing baby quilts why not just use a walking foot I got some interesting answers. First she had tried taking free motion classes and she said she just wasn’t any good (none of us are when we first start out). Second she said she was now using stencils and marking the quilts and then using a walking foot but she keeps going off the line and so it wasn’t perfect.
So why did she want to try rulers?! She was told by a group of woman that all her problems would be solved by using rulers on her domestic machine.
First it takes TIME to be good at anything and you are not going to be perfect when you first start. When you were little did you just hop on a bike and start riding? No you more than likely had training wheels and had a few falls first.
Second it does take MONEY to be good at something. You need to invest in the right tools. A good machine helps, you don’t need to spend thousands but a Walmart special may not cut it either. You also need to invest in some good classes whether they are in person or on-line. The rulers themselves are not cheap.
As I started asking this woman questions to find out how best I could serve her I learned that she wanted perfection without spending either the time or money.
Well, for one there is no such thing as perfection unless maybe you invest $30,000 in a computerized longarm and even then you have to spend time to learn how to use it.
For another, well, you just have to put in the time and practice and be willing with the knowledge that the quilting is hand guided and it is never going to be perfect.
So, sadly I was not able to help this woman as she was after something that simply did not exist. She wanted perfect machine quilting without spending the time to get better and without spending the money on the tools that would help her.
This incident has led me to think about things in my own life. Time vs Money how many times have we all come up against something similar?
Let me know in the comments if you have come up against this time vs money thing.
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